If you feel as though you are lacking in self-confidence the answer could be to become a little more adventurous. Doing something that you have never done before is a great way to increase your confidence in yourself. When was the last time you did something that felt uncomfortable to you?
Many people naturally tend to shy away from being adventurous. They don’t want to take huge risks, and prefer to stay on the same safe path. While this may be fine, it often leads to a life that becomes too familiar. You have your set routines each day, and know exactly what you do on the weekends. Get up, clean the house, do the laundry, go shopping and get ready for work on Monday? Sounds a little boring doesn’t it?
So why not shake up your life by doing something new? What one thing have you wanted to learn, or what place would you love to visit but haven’t? Why not make some plans to do it? What is holding you back, other than your lack of confidence? Nothing at all.
One of my good friends was scared of walking across a rope bridge over a beautiful gorge. They finally got up the courage to try and faced their fear head on. Eventually they managed to walk across the bridge, and boy you should have seen the smile on their face when they got to the other side! Talk about a boost for your self-confidence.
Increase Self esteem
Increasing your self-confidence levels can do wonders for your self-esteem too. You stop seeing yourself as a failure. Instead you understand that if you put your mind to it, you can achieve almost anything you want to achieve.
Set Goals
Start today by setting a goal. This goal should be a little challenging to you, and involve something adventurous, for you anyway! Write down your goal and then write out the steps you need to take to achieve your goal. Then just start tackling one step at a time. It doesn’t matter how long it takes to reach your goal. Just work on it as much as possible. When you do reach your goal you will feel thrilled with yourself. Your confidence level will rise automatically, and you too, can have that huge smile on your face.
It is time to stop feeling insecure and wondering what life really holds for you. Instead take a step outside of your comfort zone and embrace the adventures that life has to offer.
GO DO BE